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040			_aAFVC
100			_aScaia, Melissa _95481
245			_a"Can he change? What would it take for him to change?" : _ba new framework for advocates to help battered women better understand why men are abusive and what it would take for them to change _cMelissa Scaia and Scott Miller _h[Webinar]
260			_aDuluth, MN : _bDomestic Abuse Intervention Project, _c2015
300			_arecorded webinar
520			_aThis recorded videoconference/webinar will provide a tool and method for advocates to help battered women understand why men batter. This webinar will also address and help advocates answer the following questions and statements posed by battered women: If he would just get some help and get better, he would leave me alone and be nicer to our kids. Doesn’t he just need therapy? I think he is bi-polar. I think he needs medication. What if we went to couples counseling? I think we just need to communicate better and learn to compromise. My pastor said he will talk to him and meet with him. I will go, too, if he wants me to. I know he didn’t have the best childhood ever. What if he talks about it with someone? I think if he just talked about his childhood, he would be better. He gets really angry. Is there an anger management program he could go to? All he really needs is treatment. If he just stopped drinking / using drugs he wouldn’t hurt me.(From the website). Handouts are also available. Record #4937
650			_aABUSED WOMEN _925
650			_aABUSIVE MEN _926
650			_aADVOCACY _94258
650			_aATTITUDES _970
650			_aBEHAVIOUR CHANGE _93724
650			_aDOMESTIC VIOLENCE _9203
650			_aDULUTH MODEL _93492
650			_aINTIMATE PARTNER VIOLENCE _9431
650		4	_aVICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE _9624
651		4	_aUNITED STATES _92646
700			_aMiller, Scott _95483
856			_uhttp://www.theduluthmodel.org/u_canhechange-webinar.html _zWatch recorded webinar
942			_2ddc _cKIT