TY - BOOK AU - Gross, Linden TI - Surviving a stalker: everything you need to know to keep yourself safe SN - 9781569246047 (pbk.) U1 - 362.8292 GRO PY - 2000/// CY - New York PB - Marlowe & Company KW - FVC KW - INTERVENTION KW - OFFENDERS KW - STALKING KW - SURVIVORS KW - VICTIMS KW - INTIMATE PARTNER VIOLENCE KW - UNITED STATES N1 - Originally published: To have or to harm. New York : Warner Books, 1994; nyu N2 - This United States-based book is a guide to surviving stalking. Aimed at medical and counselling professionals as well as people being stalked, the book is intended to give a clearer picture of stalking, the damage it can do and how to deal with it. Written by a journalist and illustrated with case studies, the book explains how stalkers' obsessions can begin, patterns in stalking, and how to respond to obsessive attention, including recognising and controlling reactions that might put victims at risk, responding to inappropriate attention on-line and off-line, and how to protect privacy ER -