TY - BOOK AU - Penfold, Rosalind B. TI - Dragonslippers: this is what an abusive relationship looks like SN - 080217020X U1 - 616.85822 DRA PY - 2005/// CY - New York PB - Black Cat; Grove Press KW - FVC KW - ABUSED WOMEN KW - DOMESTIC VIOLENCE KW - INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS KW - PHYSICAL ABUSE KW - PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE KW - INTIMATE PARTNER VIOLENCE N1 - xxu N2 - Taking the form of a visual diary record, this book steps the reader through the stages of what became an abusive relationship. It covers the warning signs of abuse and gives a frank examination of the psychology of both abuser and victim. It is the personal story of Roz, a 35-year old businesswoman who meets and falls in love with Brian, a widower with four children. Gradually what were small warning signs at the start of their 10-year relationship become a consistent pattern of lies and petty cruelties, evolving into a litany of physical, mental, and sexual abuse. Rather than admit the true extent of her experience, Roz instead pours her anguish into a series of graphic diaries that provide a touching, shocking, and original portrait of domestic abuse. It is ultimately the story of a woman who manages to find the strength to break free ER -