Written for women in New Zealand experiencing violence or abuse from their partner or someone close to them. The book draws on the understandings and experiences of Women's Refuge advocates, and the stories shared by women who have used Refuge services. Support people, community workers, and practitioners working in the area of family violence will also find this an informative resource. The book has two parts. The first deals with surviving abuse, including: - How to identify abuse and why people are violent - Working out whether to stay or leave - Planning for safety - Rebuilding your life after the abuse - Supporting children The second section details legal and practical information such as: - What to do in a crisis - Women's Refuge and other support services - Getting a Protection Order - Dealing with lawyers, police and courts - Working out care for the children, separation and relationship property - Getting a benefit, house or job

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