It's time we started telling these stories (Record no. 2576)

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001 - CONTROL NUMBER
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005 - DATE AND TIME OF LATEST TRANSACTION
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008 - FIXED-LENGTH DATA ELEMENTS--GENERAL INFORMATION
fixed length control field 110331s2008 eng
020 ## - INTERNATIONAL STANDARD BOOK NUMBER
International Standard Book Number 9780478335156 (hbk.)
040 ## - CATALOGING SOURCE
Original cataloging agency WSS
Modifying agency AFV
082 0# - DEWEY DECIMAL CLASSIFICATION NUMBER
Classification number 362.82920922 ITS
100 ## - MAIN ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME
Personal name Tolerton, Jane
9 (RLIN) 2216
245 ## - TITLE STATEMENT
Title It's time we started telling these stories
Statement of responsibility, etc Tolerton, Jane
250 ## - EDITION STATEMENT
Edition statement 1st ed.
260 ## - PUBLICATION, DISTRIBUTION, ETC. (IMPRINT)
Place of publication, distribution, etc Wellington, N.Z.
Name of publisher, distributor, etc Family and Community Services, Ministry of Social Development
Date of publication, distribution, etc 2008
300 ## - PHYSICAL DESCRIPTION
Extent 22 cm. ; 141 p.
365 ## - TRADE PRICE
Price type code 00
Price amount 0
500 ## - GENERAL NOTE
General note Recommended reading
505 00 - FORMATTED CONTENTS NOTE
Title Introduction, p.2 My career has definitely come out of my childhood experiences : Elaine's story, illustrated by Ruslan Idrisov, p. 4 Violence begets violence : Tremain's story, illustrated by Jordan Wisniewski, p. 22 Those are clouds that are cove
520 ## - SUMMARY, ETC.
Summary, etc In this book eight people tell their personal stories of the family violence they experienced as children and how this affected the rest of their lives. These stories give hope that lives can be healed and that the cycle of violence can be broken. The idea for the book came from a women's hui about family violence held in Hamilton in 2006. After the hui it was decided to record people's stories because they show so vividly what the real effects of violence are for children - and the adults they become. One attendee at the hui said 'It's time we started telling these stories' - and that statement was chosen as the title for this book. Their stories show the devastating effects of family violence as it is passed on from one generation to the next. They illustrate the different forms and intensity of the results. For some the major effect was physical as they perpetuated violence in their own families; for others it meant a lifetime of anxiety. Their strength and resilience is obvious in their stories. These stories are intended to help others who have suffered from family violence and to help New Zealanders understand the impact of family violence on individuals, their families and their communities. We know that children are damaged by violence in the home - whether they see it, hear it or just know about it. It has been proven that the brain development of preschoolers is profoundly inhibited by exposure to violence in the home. Family violence thrives in secrecy - so the more we talk about it and understand it, the more likely we are to prevent it. These stories give hope that lives can be healed and that the cycle of violence can be broken. Contents Introduction, p.2 My career has definitely come out of my childhood experiences : Elaine's story, illustrated by Ruslan Idrisov, p. 4 Violence begets violence : Tremain's story, illustrated by Jordan Wisniewski, p. 22 Those are clouds that are covering the sun : Margaret's story, illustrated by Caley Wiki, p. 38 That anxiety-ridden waiting game of my childhood : Sophia's story, illustrated by Olivia Coetzee, p.54 We do choose our behaviours : George's story, illustrated by Vanessa Morrison, p.70 I thought I had "come and abuse me" written on my forehead Lucy's story, illustrated by Zoe Fannin, p.86 It hit you in the heart : Jane's story, illustrated by Kirstyn Hatton, p.104 It's about the whole of society : Lorri's story, illustrated by Polina Outkina, p.120 Acknowledgments, p.140 Afterword, p.141
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Geographic coverage note nz
650 27 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM
9 (RLIN) 103
Topical term or geographic name as entry element CHILD ABUSE
650 27 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM
Topical term or geographic name as entry element RECOMMENDED READING
9 (RLIN) 6431
650 27 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM
Topical term or geographic name as entry element AUTOBIOGRAPHY
9 (RLIN) 75
650 27 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM
Topical term or geographic name as entry element CHILD EXPOSURE TO VIOLENCE
9 (RLIN) 130
650 27 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM
Topical term or geographic name as entry element DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
9 (RLIN) 203
650 27 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM
Topical term or geographic name as entry element INTIMATE PARTNER VIOLENCE
9 (RLIN) 431
650 27 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM
Topical term or geographic name as entry element NARRATIVE TECHNIQUES
9 (RLIN) 399
650 24 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM
Topical term or geographic name as entry element VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
9 (RLIN) 624
651 #4 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--GEOGRAPHIC NAME
Geographic name NEW ZEALAND
9 (RLIN) 2588
710 2# - ADDED ENTRY--CORPORATE NAME
9 (RLIN) 2554
Corporate name or jurisdiction name as entry element New Zealand. Ministry of Social Development. Family and Community Services
856 4# - ELECTRONIC LOCATION AND ACCESS
Uniform Resource Identifier <a href="http://www.realstories.org.nz/">http://www.realstories.org.nz/</a>
942 ## - ADDED ENTRY ELEMENTS (KOHA)
Source of classification or shelving scheme Dewey Decimal Classification
Koha item type Book
Holdings
Withdrawn status Lost status Damaged status Not for loan Home library Current library Date acquired Total Checkouts Full call number Barcode Date last seen Copy number Price effective from Koha item type Source of classification or shelving scheme
        Vine library Vine library 06/07/2011   TRO 362.82920922 ITS A00670472B 03/08/2011 Copy 1 06/07/2011 Book  
        Vine library Vine library 06/07/2011   TRO 362.82920922 ITS A00670480B 03/08/2011 Copy 2 06/07/2011 Book  
        Vine library Vine library 27/10/2011   TRO 362.82920922 ITS A0067091AB 27/10/2011   27/10/2011 Book Dewey Decimal Classification
        Vine library Vine library 21/08/2012   Online ON12080363 21/08/2012   21/08/2012 Access online